Less than 24 hours have passed since Prime Minister Nawaf Salam’s visit to Washington, leading a delegation that included the ministers of foreign affairs, finance, and energy. That was enough time to reveal a chasm that cannot be ignored: the perspective from which the U.S. administration views the Lebanese situation differs radically from the Lebanese state’s own understanding of its reality, and of how to engage with Washington on it.

Secretary of State Marco Rubio succinctly summarized the American position: a conditional U.S. commitment to implementing the tripartite framework, considered the only path to lasting peace with Israel, and Washington’s support for a sovereign Lebanon, free from the influence of Hezbollah and Iran. He didn’t stop there. Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent, one of the administration’s most hawkish figures, followed with an equally decisive statement: Lebanon is required to take decisive action to dismantle Iranian and Hezbollah financial networks, and restoring confidence in the banking sector is contingent upon fundamental reforms. Sanctions will spare no one.

Two officials, in a single day, speaking with the same tone: decisiveness, not diplomacy.

Two officials, in a single day, speaking with the same tone: decisiveness, not diplomacy.Elissa El Hachem

These two messages are not a passing event, but part of a much broader American perspective than Beirut realizes. For Washington, Hezbollah is not a Lebanese armed faction that can be negotiated with or integrated into a domestic political equation. It is Iran, literally: its executive arm on Lebanese soil. The American decision to dismantle its structure is therefore not negotiable or subject to postponement; it is an irreversible decision, part of a broader project to weaken Iranian influence throughout the region. All the indicators point to a growing conviction that this administration’s ultimate goal is no longer merely to weaken that influence, but to topple the regime in Tehran itself.

This is the standard by which Washington is managing the issue: regional and strategic, not local and Lebanese. And this is precisely where the flaw in the Lebanese understanding lies. Salam’s explanation after his meetings resembled an ostrich burying its head in the sand. The Lebanese state, with its official institutions, continues to treat Hezbollah as a neighbor, or a partner with whom it shares coexistence, rather than as an existential threat to its sovereignty, its decision-making power, and its very existence as a state. Whoever is managing this file in Beirut either doesn’t realize, or doesn’t want to realize, the magnitude and speed of what is happening. This hesitation and procrastination will come at a heavy price.

This miscalculation is the real danger. When Washington speaks of the “only path” and the “decisive decision,” it isn’t issuing empty threats for photo opportunities. It is describing a firm policy upon which actual decisions are based: sanctions, designations, financial pursuits, isolation, and perhaps even more.

Even more troubling, the Prime Minister’s own statement contains a fallacy that cannot be ignored. Salam demands a clear timetable for the Israeli withdrawal and a verification mechanism to monitor American and Israeli compliance, as if Washington and Tel Aviv were servants of Lebanon, expected to provide what Lebanon itself continues to refuse to provide. A simple question arises:

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Why does Lebanon demand specific deadlines from others while refusing to commit itself to a single deadline for implementing its own decisions? This double standard is precisely what is called political duplicity, and Washington, unlike Beirut, does not waste its time or energy on those who practice it. Those who want American support must earn it, not demand commitments from others that they themselves have not yet fulfilled. This support is neither open-ended nor unconditional.

The deeper problem lies not only in how Washington views Lebanon, but in how Lebanon views itself. A way must be found to make the Lebanese state understand the true purpose of the ongoing tripartite negotiations: they are not about a temporary solution, nor a new truce with Israel. The goal is to end this situation permanently, because Lebanon is meant to be part of the upcoming regional project, namely the Abraham Accords. The future on offer is one of less politics, less war, less confrontation, and more geo-economic integration. Lebanon must emerge from its paralysis and begin to see things from the same American perspective, finally understanding the consequences of every step it takes, or fails to take.

The region is not waiting for Lebanon. The same week Salam visited Washington, the Middle East was rearranging its cards at a dizzying pace. On Sunday, Netanyahu was in Abu Dhabi meeting with Mohammed bin Zayed; on Monday, Turkish Foreign Minister Hakan Fidan was also in Abu Dhabi; and on Tuesday, the UAE Vice President was in Saudi Arabia, in the first direct meeting at this level since the dispute over Yemen. Every regional player is repositioning to ensure its survival and gain in the new order whose contours are being drawn now, not years from now. Lebanon, meanwhile, keeps spinning in circles, squandering its opportunities and hesitating to secure its place on the new regional map.

Donald Trump is not Santa Claus. He didn’t come to hand out presents to a country that watches its own collapse and treats its destroyers as mere roommates. American support, as the statements by Rubio and Bessent make clear, is conditional, time-bound, and tied to actions, not words. And the gap between these two perspectives, if not quickly bridged by the Lebanese side, will not translate into diplomatic reproaches, but into a price that the entire state will pay, not just Hezbollah.